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Who remembers the Butch Pal for the Straight Gal post?

A while back, @pizza-queen made a post coming the idea of “Butch Pal for the Straight Gal”- a Queer Eye for the Straigt Guy spin-off for women. Well, soon after the post was made, someone contacted her saying that they had already started it and needed funding. So, she made a banner for them and made a fundraiser to help get the word out!

Sadly, this quickly turned sour as someone started making accusations saying that it was a scam. No one questioned it, even though the fundraiser was slowly being met. When they reached $15K, someone said that she stole the money and was the original creator of the show. Someone even said that she threatened to sue a 17 year old girl for calling it a scam. People blindly followed along, and to try and protect herself, she blocked hundreds of people. This didn’t work, sadly.

She has been sent much hate mail, death threats, etc. She has been doxxed and has had to change her number. Her address has been outed. Her social was outed. The police have a patrol around her parents’ house because they have been doxxed, too. Every day, she gets hate mail and every day she feels worse and worse.

Wanna see my proof? Here are screenshots from our conversation.

I checked out her story and did some research. It all checks out as truth.

Also, people are saying that she deleted her posts, when all she made was the one. The reason? They are trying to make up a reason why the accusations that she threatened to sue a 17 year old girl (which never happened). In fact, the girl said that the accusations were all false and that she never did it, but the public said that she threatened the girl into saying it.

I am coming to you as someone who likes to defend people. I am coming to you as a willing fighter who did this on his own.

She did nothing wrong. She does not deserve this.

The accusations against her are all false. She only made the post about the banner and the fundraiser. She never made any threats to sue, she never said or did anything racist, sexist, transphobic, or mean. She is a wonderful, sweet woman who doesn’t deserve the shit she’s been given.

Im here to try and set things right with the Truth. Please, spread the word. If you’ve reblogged the post from someone named “Manor”, who reblogged it with a meme of Dr Phill handing you an L saying “when everyone finds out this is a scam” or something, PLEASE SHARE THIS POST. Everything being said against her is FALSE.

so are you gonna extend the same amount of sympathy to the teen who got threatened?

so she didnt make the show or is involved and i do not believe that that she should’ve got doxxed but i do wonder why did u tag this with tucute and transmedical????

To get the word out.

Also, the girl was never threatened. Did you read the photos?

Writing Asexual Characters: Character-Development Questions

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So you’re thinking of writing a character as asexual? Great! Maybe you’re asexual yourself, or maybe you’re a non-asexual person trying to portray it accurately.

Being asexual can affect a person’s life and personality in many ways; I know that I, at least, would have grown up to be totally different if I weren’t asexual and aromantic. Your asexual characters’ personalities should reflect asexuality without being completely defined by it. And this holds true regardless of whether you’re writing original fiction or fanfiction.

If you’re not asexual, it may be hard to think of ways that asexuality could affect your characters’ lives, and how you can portray it in a sensitive and realistic way. So I’ve compiled a list of character-development questions to help you. There are no right or wrong answers, as long as you treat your characters’ sexual orientations as real, and not as something to be “fixed” by falling in love or having good sex. These questions will help you get an idea of all the options open to you as a writer, and prepare you to write your asexual character in a consistent way. You may even get some good ideas for plots and conflict from this list. And if you are asexual, then this list might be helpful to you, too.

Keep reading

How to show that a character is asexual

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…Because interrupting the narrative to turn it into Asexuality 101 is not always a good idea.

It may be easier to implement these ideas if you’ve also read my asexual character development question list. You can also get more ideas from reading and answering those questions.

Note: Most of these ideas will also work for gray-asexual and demisexual characters, because they tend to have a lot of experiences in common with asexuals.

Say it outright.

The only way to be 100% certain is for the character to identify themself as asexual in the story’s text. Everything else I suggest here, at most, can only hint in that direction. If you intend to actually represent asexuality in your story and not just imply it, you must state it explicitly at some point. Otherwise, you’re just doing the asexual equivalent of queerbaiting (acebaiting?), which is infuriating because asexual people have almost no fictional representation in the first place.

Your characters might use the word “asexual,” or they might say something else that means the same thing. When doing this, remember that there is a difference between being asexual and being celibate.

Examples:

  • “I’m asexual.”
  • “I’ve never been sexually attracted to anyone.”
  • “I do not lust after other people.”
  • “I’m not attracted to anyone, and never have been.”
  • “I don’t have any urge for carnal pleasures.”

Drop hints about it in dialogue.

Think about your character’s attitude toward sex. Are they sex-repulsed, sex-indifferent or sex-enjoying? When they think about sex in general, do they find it boring, gross, annoying, creepy, amusing, weird, or just meh? Most asexual people do not enjoy sex or seek it out, but they aren’t outright afraid of it either. When you write dialogue, think about your asexual character’s opinions, feelings, and expectations about sexuality, and look for opportunities to suggest that they’re not on the same wavelength as everybody else.

Examples:

  • “I’m not interested in anybody.”
  • “I’m not planning on getting married.”
  • “Dating is overrated.”
  • “I hate it when movies have sex scenes.”
  • “Wait, people actually find it hard to be celibate?”

You can also subtly suggest that a character is asexual by writing them as oblivious to or disturbed by innuendo, dirty jokes, flirting, and/or conversations about sex. Some asexual people have a hard time picking up on these things, or will assume everything is platonic unless it’s explicitly spelled out as sexual. Others might be so repulsed by sex that they don’t even like hearing about it. And then again, some asexuals find the subject hilarious or interesting, and will be very explicit or detached when talking about it, to the point of making non-asexual people feel awkward.

Develop an asexual backstory, and mention it in the text.

Think about the ways that your character was affected by growing up asexual, and how their youth may have differed from other people’s. Maybe they always winced and turned away at kissing scenes in movies. Maybe they couldn’t be bothered to date anyone in high school. Maybe they tried having sex, just to see what all the fuss was about, but regretted it or were disappointed. Maybe they spent years wondering what was wrong with them because they didn’t like sex. If the character is old enough, think about how asexuality may have affected their dating life in the past. If your character knows they’re asexual, you should also think about the experiences that led them to realize it.

Adjust the way that the asexual character speaks.

If your character uses words and concepts that are rarely heard outside the asexual community, it’s a big fat sign that they identify as asexual, or are at least very familiar with asexuality. The asexual community thinks about love, attraction and relationships in a different way than mainstream culture does, and our language reflects that. I’ve compiled a nice glossary of words and concepts that your asexual character may use in conversation. You can also try dropping references to asexual culture, such as a black ring on the right middle finger, or the colors of the asexual flag. (I advise staying away from the cake jokes, though.)

Some asexual people avoid describing other people as “hot” or “sexy,” because those words may imply sexual attraction.

Show how asexuality affects the character’s romantic and/or sexual relationships (or lack thereof).

Some scenarios that asexual characters may encounter:

  • They are virgins well into their 20s, or even later.
  • They have sex, but find the experience underwhelming, disgusting or disturbing.
  • Their relationships become strained because their partner wants sex but they don’t.
  • They avoid dating entirely because the prospect of having sex with someone makes them uncomfortable.
  • They feel like they have to fake being sexually attracted to someone.
  • They’re afraid their partner will leave them for someone more interested in sex.
  • They can’t find a partner because they don’t want to have sex.
  • They do find a partner who doesn’t mind having a sexless relationship.
  • They choose to have sex for different reasons than most people do, and these reasons are not related to sexual attraction.
  • They want to “wait until marriage” but are secretly dreading having sex after the wedding.
  • Their relationship with their romantic partner is not taken seriously by other characters because it does not involve sex.
  • They form a queerplatonic relationship instead of a romantic relationships.
  • Their partner agrees to become celibate, or they work out a compromise on what kinds of sexual activities they’ll do together.
  • They set up an open or polyamorous relationship so their partner gets sexual satisfaction elsewhere, while still remaining happily together.
  • They seek medical treatment for not being as sexually interested as they think they’re supposed to be.
  • They don’t think that they need birth control or STD protection because they are celibate.

I’m undoubtedly forgetting a lot more.

Make the character’s hobbies, lifestyle, goals, and entertainment choices reflect their asexuality.

Keep in mind that asexual people are diverse, and the ideas listed below do NOT apply to all, or even to the majority of asexual people in real life. But they can be good starting points for sparking discussions about asexuality in your story, or as additions to an asexual character who is otherwise well-rounded. They can also be good ways to foreshadow that a character is asexual.

The following are just a few examples of how asexuality can affect someone’s lifestyle:

  • They choose to avoid media that contains graphic depictions of sex.
  • They don’t have a porn collection.
  • They avoid romantic movies, or movies with sex scenes in them.
  • They avoid going to bars, nightclubs, strip clubs, raves, or other places with sexually charged atmospheres.
  • They tend to avoid collecting art and music that have sexual content.
  • They do not try to dress up so as to appear attractive to the opposite sex.
  • They don’t enjoy hanging out with non-asexual friends who talk about sex or sexual attraction a lot.
  • They avoid casual sex or one night stands entirely.
  • They never want to get married.
  • They expect to spend their future and old age single.
  • They aren’t very interested in having sex, and need a strong reason before they’ll consider it.

Make other characters curious about the asexual character’s dating life or sexual orientation.

In real life, if a person between the ages of 16 and 50 goes for years without having or seeking a sexual relationship, people often get nosy. They may ask why the asexual person isn’t married yet, wonder if something is wrong, or even spread rumors about that person.

Asexual people are not heterosexual, and often do not fit in well with a culture of heteronormativity and compulsory sexuality. Think about how your asexual character’s words, attitudes and lifestyle will be perceived by other people, and what those people are likely to say and do in response.

Use another character as a foil.

By writing another character who differs from your asexual character in behavior, attitudes or sexual priorities, you can show just how distinct the asexual character really is. Consider putting the characters in similar situations and having them react differently, or making different choices. The foil character doesn’t need to be a super-horny, oversexed, socially aggressive extrovert; in fact, it’s often more effective to write a person of average libido and sexual activity, and who is portrayed as “normal” and typical by the narrative, because this highlights just how unusual and different asexuality is.

Be careful that you do not portray the foil character’s sexuality as a negative trait, or else you may risk putting slut-shaming, misogynistic or homophobic implications into your story. They can be a villain, but unless they engage in sexual coercion, rape or other Very Bad Sex Acts then their villainy should be unrelated to their sexuality.

Don’t your make foil character a rapist. Just…don’t do it. It’s very difficult to pull this off without making the overall tone of the story to be sex-negative, and it puts asexuality at odds with sexual violence while leaving little room for consensual, healthy sex.

Read blogs and websites written by asexual people.

You can get a lot of ideas by reading about how individual people experience asexuality. (If you ARE asexual, of course, you can draw on your own experiences.) Asexual bloggers talk about unusual or interesting things that happen to them as a result of being asexual, how asexuality affects their relationships with other people, what kinds of things they want, like or dislike because of asexuality, and more. Every person’s experiences are unique, and while they may not represent all asexual people, they are real and worth considering. Think about how you can adapt some of those experiences into a fictional context. There are many asexual bloggers on Tumblr.

hey you guys know the best part of ch142?

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It’s…

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…that with Lizzie now back, we may finally be able to witness some interactions between her and the Undertaker (it’s been 27+ volumes…). 

And it’s important because we know that UT cares about “the Phantomhive family”…

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but we don’t know who that represents exactly.

He mentioned Vincent…

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and the twins…

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but we don’t know if he’d want to bring Frances and possibly her children back from the dead too, should something happen to them.

That’s why finding out about if UT includes Frances’ side of the family in the people he’d rather not lose is important, because that’d give hints about his possible identity, as well as his state of mind. 

I talked about this before, but the way UT instantly declared that he liked the twins because “they’re both Phantomhives as regards [him]” in ch131 is… hard to take at face-value because:

  • if UT is Cedric K. Ros, then the twins are his grandkids so him instantly caring is logical and there is nothing else to say
  • if UT isn’t Cedric K. Ros tho’, then he automatically validated the twins “because they’re Phantomhives”, which means only because he loved Claudia or happened to find Vincent an enjoyable guy + which implies that, whatever the twins are like as their own person, he gives 0 care about and that’s meh. :// 

Personally, I like to think that at least ch84…

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…is enough to say that UT does see our!Ciel as a person different from his father and grandmother, but then there is ch35 which could be seen (in extreme cases) as a hint of the opposite…

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so I’d like to know which one it is for sure: does UT care just because of Claudia, or does he care because he has a soft spot for all of them (whether he’s Cedric K. Ros or not)?

Hence me being really eager to see how UT acts with Lizzie, because it should be an indicator as to whether he cares or not about the Midfords and…

  • Should he care about Frances’ side of the family, it also implies that he should see Vincent and the twins as their own person and not as proxies for Claudia, which is a good thing (+ you can take this as another hint for the UT = Cedric theory). 
  • Should he not care, well, I think that rules out the UT = Cedric theory + it’d also imply that UT’s attachment to the P family could just be all about Claudia and seeing proxies for her through her son and grandsons, which is… not good or healthy. 

Sensei said before that UT was no villain despite the appearances, which I think is meant regarding our!Ciel’s character more than Seb’s. Nonetheless I think that it makes more likely the version that he cares and sees Claudia’s family (including Frances, Liz and Ed) as enjoyable people for different reasons.

I’d just like an official confirmation about this, since it’s a subject of debate,

as well as a big answer about UT’s characterization and a good clue about if he’ll stay in the narrative for a little while longer or not.

One last thing: whether UT cares about Frances’ side of the family or not doesn’t change the fact that he’s a selfish a**hole who should find a better way to cope about things. Sensei implied he was no villain but that doesn’t mean he’s free of guilt or that he shouldn’t change his ways.

Because UT is completely wrong about bringing back the dead thinking it will change everything about how he or Lizzie or our!Ciel feel. It’s just that caring about Frances and her kids may just give him better odds at realizing that he messed up. 

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And, to add onto what I already answered you @mourninglockets, the other reason I like the idea that UT actually cares about Frances and her kids is that the harder redemption is, the better character development will turn out to be.  

Think about it, since UT is no villain, that means he’ll have to find a way to make it up to the people he cares about and whom he hurts, that is if he ever realizes that he was 100% wrong. 

However, Ciel alone is not really a challenge in that aspect, because Ciel showed that even after the Campania and Weston arcs he still trusted the Undertaker (probably because he could guess with the lockets that UT had a special link to his family).

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That’s why, should UT also care about Frances’ side of the family, that means he’d have to make it up to them too and that’s where it gets harder, not so much as far as Liz and Ed are concerned, but I doubt Frances would forgive him easily (Cedric K. Ros or not). 

That’s why I favor this stance between the two. UT did some crazy shit during three arcs, so if he’s to stay in the narrative, he’d better find a way to pay back the people he hurts (especially if he claims to care about them). He’ll just be more dedicated to doing it right for everyone if he cares about more than just Ciel in my opinion, that’s all. 🙂

The builder and the destoryer – Edward and Scar

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In fiction, a foil is a character who contrasts with another character – usually the protagonist— to highlight particular qualities of the other character

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I started to re-read Fullmetal Alchemist during this week, and as I read trough the series again, I noticed numerous things that I have not paid attention to before. One of the first things that caught my attention, was that Edward and Scar seemed to be foils to each other. In this post, I´ll be talking about this dynamic. 

To make the post a bit easier to read, I`ll divide parts of the dynamic into separate/different sections.

Builder and a destroyer

Most of the time Edward uses alchemy to build, create and restore things. He transforms his automail into a weapon, creates pillars, stone hands and pathways from grounds and walls. The first goal he and Alphonse had in mind with alchemy, was to restore a person from dead.

Even thou Edward uses the disintegration attack he learns from Scar in various situations in the course of the story, I would call Edward more an creator and builder, than destroyer.

Scar, at least in the beginning of the story, is an opposite of this. Scar is an agent of destruction. He says that to Edward and Alphonse during vol 2: if they are creators, he is the destructive force. With his right hand, Scar dismantles, disintegrates and destroys obstacles and people in his way. The right hand that he got from his brother is meant for destruction, and in that it is what Scar uses it.

I think you could say that in the beginning Edward was the positive current, while Scar reflected the negative one. While Edward uses his right hand to build, Scar`s uses his to destroy. 

Killer and a non-killer

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Scar`s nature as the “negative current” and as an agent of destruction meant, that he killed those who were the targets of his revenge. He murdered countless state alchemists and those who would get in his way. 

Edward`s sees the world in a different manner. When he is talking with Kimblee in the mountain headquarters, Edward tells him that it takes courage/will not to kill. And that is what Edward does in the course of the story. He can land painful punches, but he does not kill his opponents.

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His view of what makes a being person is very wide. Maybe by being a person who creates, the act of taking and destroying a life is not fitting.  

The burden of a title and no name

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In order to get their bodies back, Edward decided to get functional limbs and to become an state Alchemist. This is what he indeed becomes in surprisingly young age. The state alchemists are despised by people, since alchemists are supposed to serve the people. They are usually called the army´s dogs and etc… All State Alchemists get an nickname, and so does Edward. His nickname is Fullmetal Alchemist. From this title Edward is known in different places, and some people call him by his nickname “Metal” more, instead of his real name. 

Scar does something totally different. During the end of vol 8 when Yoki is talking with Scar, Scar explains that all people of Ishval carry the name given to them by their god proudly. However Scar explains to Yoki that he has abandoned his name a long time ago.

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So as Edward begins his journey, he adopts a new title which is at times a heavy and unpleasant burden. As the man who seeks revenge, Scar, is born, he starts his path tainted by blood by abandons his former, noble name, which seems to of importance to the people of Ishval.  

The one who was saved and the one who saved

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When the experiment conducted to restore Edward`s and Alphonse`s mother went wrong, Ed lost his leg and Al lost his body. In order to get his brother back, Edward gave in return his right arm for his brother´s soul. This saved his little brother. 

During the Ishval destruction war, Kimblee attacked Scar and the rest of his family. Scar was badly wounded, and he lost his right arm. Scar`s elder brother who was also injured, found his bleeding, dying little brother. He could not find Scar´s severed arm to re-attach it, so in order to save his little brother, he gave his right hand instead. 

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So Edward saved Alphonse by giving his right arm for Al`s soul, and Scar`s elder brother gave his own right hand for Scar, so that he would not bleed out and die.

While both Edward and Alphonse stayed alive, Scar´s brother did not make it to see the other day.

Atheist and a believer

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Without commenting if there is a god in the world of FMA, it seems that Edward does not believe in such, or at least is not very interested in them. In the first volume and first chapter, Edward tells to Rose that scientists like himself do not believe in such tales. During vol 2 when Ed`s automail is broken by Scar and as he gives Edward time for his last prayer, Edward says that he has no god to pray to.

Scar at least in the beginning of the story belongs to the religion/creed of Ishaval. He is a warrior monk, and is saddened by the fact that his elder brother practices alchemy, the craft transforms things from their original state, something that is forbidden by their religion.

Journeymen without home

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During one point in the story, Edward describes himself and Alphonse rootless travelers. In some sense, they are this. When Edward became an state alchemist, he and Alphonse burned down their home in Resembool. Pinako ponders that the brothers did this in order to cut off an escape route. So without a home to return to, they will be determined to stay on their journey to find away to restore their bodies. 

However, their “home” was not completely destroyed, and Major Armstrong comments that brothers will always have another home with Rockbells.

The annihilation war of Ishval destroyed Scar`s homeland. Not only the infrastructure and surroundings were destroyed, but the people living there where annihilated by the military. As Scar stumbles on to a mountain peak where you can gaze upon Ishval, he only finds an destroyed landscape, full of holes and bloodshed. This annihilation of home forces Scar to leave on a journey, and he starts his revenge. 

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Both Scar`s and Edwards homes were destroyed in some sense. There are differences however. Edward and Alphonse burned their house willingly, and still retained someplace to belong to even after that. Scar`s homeland was destroyed by an outer force, and it was definitely something Scar did not want.

This aspect of person on a journey without a place where to stay is showcased in other manners as well. Both need to travel because they are searching for something, so it is needed because of the story. It also illustrates their journey men nature, who do not stay in one place. Arakawa also draws Edward and Alphonse walking on top train tracks in some artworks, and moving from one place to another is a recurring motif in the anime openings.

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References to Mexican Culture in Coco

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By now, you’ve probably heard Coco is one of the most well researched films about Mexico and its culture. There are many small details that make it feel like Mexico: the stone roads in a small town, the traditional embroidery patterns in the shirts of Miguel’s female relatives, an uncle wearing a soccer team shirt, even a bowl of limes in a stand of aguas frescas. Of course, the looks of papel picado, day of the dead altars, and cemeteries are also well represented. The clothes of the relatives Miguel sees in the world of the dead is accurate to their eras. While these are a nice touch, you’re ultimately not missing out on anything by not spotting them, so in this post I wanted to talk about the more culturally based details that show the most research and you might not understand if you’re not very well acquainted with Mexican culture:

Names and pronouns

1. Coco

This one is the most straightforward, so let’s start with the name of the movie. While the protagonist is called Miguel, we soon learn that Coco is his great grandmother. “Coco” is what we call a woman called “Socorro” (lit. “help” – it’s a very traditional name that’s considered old fashioned).

The Rivera family calls her “Mamá Coco,” which means “Mother Coco.” They also call Imelda “Mamá Imelda,” and so on. Calling your grandparents “mamá” or “papá” instead of “abuelita” and “abuelito” is a thing you can do, though I can’t say how common it is.

In the Spanish version of the film, Miguel’s grandmother, Elena, talks to Mamá Coco with “usted” (I didn’t notice other instances, but they might be there). Spanish has a formal and an informal version of singular “you:” “usted” for formal, “tú” for informal. The verb conjugation also changes depending on which one you use. It is used differently all through the Spanish speaking world, but in Mexico, other than older people you respect (like a teacher), you can talk to older family members with “usted,” which means respect rather than the distance the formality might imply. Nowadays, it has fallen out of use: as someone born in the 90s, my grandparents talked to their parents almost exclusively with “usted;” out of my parents, my mother talked to hers with “usted” and my father with “tú;” I speak to my parents with “tú.” I have cousins on my mother’s side that talk to their parents with “usted,” but I would say that makes them a minority nowadays.

Traditions and beliefs

2. Crossing to the world of the dead on a bridge of marigolds

If you paid very close attention, you might have noticed two children scattering marigold petals on the ground and their mother telling them not to scatter them, but to make a bridge so the dead could cross over. It was easy to miss, but that’s actually something we believe!

There are several types of flowers you can place in a day of the dead altar, but the one you can’t do without is the yellow marigold. Its petals are scattered all around the altar, and at the very front, you’ll form a path surrounded with candles. The bright yellow will help the dead properly make their way to the altar, and the candles surrounding the path will light their way.

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3. Crossing to the world of the dead with a xoloitzcuintli

Several prehispanic cultures had a similar concept of the underworld as many other cultures around the world, in which there was a river they had to cross to get there. For both the Aztecs/Mexicas and the Mayas, a xoloitzcuintli would guide their souls so they could cross the river safely and arrive to Mictlan (Mexicas) or Xibalba (Mayas). To achieve this, a xoloitzcuintli would be sacrificed and buried with its owner. Day of the dead altars can have a xoloitzcuintli figure so that the dead can make it back safely as well.

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4. Being thrown into a cenote

My screenshot isn’t the best but at some point, Miguel is thrown into a big pit with water. That’s not just any random pit, but a cenote.

Cenotes are naturally ocurring sinkholes caused by the collapse of limestone. The word “cenote” has Maya etymology, as cenotes are commonly found in the Yucatán peninsula, where they (still!) live. In old times, they would sacrifice animals and people as tributes to the gods, and also throw ceramic objects and jewelry as part of the tribute.

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5. Alebrijes

I left these for last because they don’t have any deep meaning. Alebrijes are colorful fantastic animals that a man called Pedro Linares saw in a fever dream. He was a skilled artisan, so when he woke up from his long sickness, he brought them to life in his art.

In Coco, alebrijes are spiritual guides, and while their designs are to the likes of the real alebrijes, the film actually gave them a more important role than they have for us.

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Music

6. Genres of Mexican music

The songs in Coco all belong to genres we’ve grown up with, so even if someone isn’t that knowledgeable in music theory or genres, we could vaguely tell they sounded “Mexican” (some more than others). Someone who is more knowledgeable of music genres can help me out here, but I think:

– Remember Me / Recuérdame is a bolero ranchero.

– Much Needed Advice / Dueto a través del tiempo is a ranchera.

– Everyone Knows Juanita / Juanita is a corrido.

– Un Poco Loco is a son jarocho.

– The World Es Mi Familia / El mundo es mi familia is huapango inspired.

– Proud Corazón / El latido de mi corazón is a a son (son de mariachi? I’m most uncertain about this one).

6.5 Un Poco Loco

Un Poco Loco starts in English as

What color is the sky, ay mi amor, ay mi amor,
You tell me that it’s red, ay mi amor, ay mi amor

And in Spanish as

Que el cielo no es azul, ay mi amor, ay mi amor,
Es rojo dices tú, ay mi amor, ay mi amor

(You say the sky isn’t blue, oh my love, oh my love,
It’s red, you say, oh my love, oh my love)

This might be a deliberate reference to a huapango called “Cielo rojo,” which says:

Mientras yo estoy dormido
Sueño que vamos los dos muy juntos
A un cielo azul
Pero cuando despierto
El cielo es rojo, me faltas tú

(As I sleep
I dream of us close together
Going towards a blue sky
But when I wake up
The sky red, I am missing you)

Within the universe of the movie, this would make it an anachronistic reference, though. Additionally, Cielo rojo is a song of loss and Un poco loco is about a woman who thinks very differently and likes to say everything backwards, and that makes him crazy (in a good way!). Hence, in English we’ve got her saying to put his shoes on his head instead of his feet, and in Spanish him saying she might think with her feet and also how she keeps playing with his thoughts. Cielo rojo is a pretty sad song.

7. La Llorona

And I purposefully left La Llorona out of that list (it’s originally a son istmeño, though).

There’s a full musical number in Spanish, which seems to have suprised some people. For those of us who watched Coco in Spanish, it wasn’t too hard to guess it was this one: La Llorona was likely left in Spanish because it’s a very old folk song, one of those that are so old it has no known author and there are many different versions of the lyrics.

“Llorona” just means “weeper,” which is not really as unusual of a word in Spanish as it is in English. It’s closer to “crybaby” in use. She’s also what we call a character in a Mexican folktale. If you’re curious, the version used in Coco says the following, with “llorona” being the singer herself:

Poor me, llorona, llorona dressed in sky blue
Even if it costs me my life, llorona, I won’t stop loving you
I climbed the highest pine tree to see if I could spot you
Since the pine tree was so green, llorona, it cried upon seeing me cry

What is grief and what is not grief, llorona: it all is grief to me
Yesterday, I was crying to see you, llorona; today, I’m crying because I saw you

Poor me, llorona, llorona dressed in sky blue
Even if it costs me my life, llorona, I won’t stop loving you

Famous people

8. Ernesto de la Cruz

“Isn’t he an original charact-” NO LISTEN STAY WITH ME.

Remember how I said Remember Me is a bolero ranchero? Guess who we associate boleros rancheros with?

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That would be Pedro Infante, who happens to have a strong resemblance to no other than Ernesto de la Cruz.

It’s probably not a coincidence at all, as later on we see Ernesto with Pedro Infante and Jorge Negrete at his party. Ernesto de la Cruz was explicitly stated to be inspired on both of them and another singer of the same genres, Vicente Fernández.

My parents left the movie saying “Pedro Infante didn’t deserve that burn,” lol.

9. Frida Kahlo (and Diego)

She does have a rather prominent role so she’s hard to miss. For those unaware, Frida is the artist who made the flaming papaya.

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The themes in Frida’s are autobiographical, as she had a rather unusual life due to polio and injury. She painted herself and her suffering a lot. That might be why we get performances with many Fridas and things like a crying cactus that’s herself.

Bonus: her husband, Diego Rivera, is also in the same studio where we meet Frida. He was an important artist, specifically a muralist. 

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10. Other Mexican celebrities

I already brought up Pedro Infante and Jorge Negrete as characters that appear right beside Ernesto de la Cruz.

But we also get to see a cameo of many other famous Mexican names in Ernesto’s studio! Excluding the people at the piano, from left to right:

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Emiliano Zapata, a revolutionary; (my best guess is) Adela Velarde, another revolutionary; Ernesto and Miguel; (probably) Agustín Lara, composer and singer; (probably) Dolores del Río, actress (in Hollywood too!); Cantinflas, comedian and actor; Pedro Infante, singer and actor; María Félix, actress; El Santo, wrestler and actor; Jorge Negrete, singer and actor.

They kind of looked like this:

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Another bonus: this gal looks like the calavera garbancera / the Catrina illustrated by José Guadalupe Posada.

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There might be more things I’m missing or forgot; if that’s the case, feel free to let me know! You can also fix my music genres for me since that’s never been my forte.

I hope this was of interest to someone! 

Maybe because I live in a predominantly Latinx community, but I wouldn’t say “usted” is falling out of use. All my cousins use it to talk to our grandma, I have definitely been scolded for not using it.

Use in a mixed Latinx community will differ from use in a Mexican American community, which will also differ from use in a Mexican community. 

For instance, the degree of formality of “usted” is vastly different between Colombians and Mexicans; the former might even use it for their friends. In my personal experience, Mexican American communities tend to be a bit more old fashioned than people who do live in the country. I am speaking from the point of view of someone who is born, raised, and living in Mexico. 

Here, I consider it’s falling out of use because you’ll hardly hear anyone call their own parents “usted”, like Abuelita Elena does Mamá Coco in the film. If I remember correctly, Miguel doesn’t call his own parents “usted”, so there is a generational gap that is very true to reality. Plenty of people do still call their grandparents “usted”, but even those are becoming less nowadays. 

I hope that makes my point a bit clearer? 

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First day of life up until 6th grade 

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Jumped all the way to Freshman year of High School

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Then I cut my hair Junior year, why did I do that

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Slowly it started growing back and then….

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I finally felt comfortable to express myself (the picture on the left was my debut)

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At this point in my transition I am 6 months into HRT

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A year on HRT

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Over a year and a half on hormones. My transition hasn’t been the clearest path but I am so happy that I am on it.

Update:

2 years since my coming out 

2 years on hrt

2.3 years on hrt

2 and a half years on hormones 

Its been a while since I’ve done an update so here it goes

At this point I am 3 years into my Hormone Replacement Therapy. I’m thriving. 

These pictures were taken days apart and I am 3 and a half years into my medical transition (The picture on the right was also posted by Instagram on all their major social media handles attached with an interview I did with them for International Women’s Month)

During this time I was 4 years into HRT. Clearly living for it.

I am currently 4 and a half years into HRT, 5 years into socially transitioning, 6 years into when i first came out to my community around me and I’m loving life more than I ever thought I would. 

Lil mini update!! It’s my 5 years on hormones and I think that’s quite the milestone to be proud of so here’s some pics since the last update.

Can’t wait to see how the next 5 years go!

I will always reblog this post. It’s so heartwarming.

she’s flawless

I’m screaming my gay ass off she’s the single most beautiful person I’ve ever seen.

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ok, i’m built like a noble ox. like i am 6′1 and i am sturdy lady. like thighs for days. if you try to move me. you will be moved. body images aside (lol, i am self conscious about my size, yeah it’s life) 

so like, i am very used to girls standing next to me in public places. i end up acquiring a pack of ladies. just because women are like, that lady is a lady men stay away from. i am jerk kryptonite (usually, i get my fair share of creeps, such is life) but most men have self preservation that this 6′1 ox will break them. and i will

so usually i am in my own phone and look up to another lady standing next to me. and i will immediately look up and make eye contact and nod. like, you know, that nod. i see you and you can talk if there is something wrong. i end up on a reg basis being a defacto bodyguard to these young ladies and small women while waiting for buses and in the metro. 

i am a large oak tree. i protect the other birds. 

ladies, we all got roles. find tree in the wild. we’re always happy to provide shelter from the creeps.

i’ve regularly said, “move on, she doesn’t want to be your friend”

I’m in love

Story time: So I’m 6’2 and “big boned” as my mother would call it. This happens to me all the time and a couple years ago I managed to get the the front row of a Macklemore concert. This woman, probably 5’4, squeezes up next to me and says, “Hey, I’m here alone, do you mind if I stand in front of you?” Of course not. So we’re all having a good time, dancing around, when all of a sudden this Bro™️ is behind me telling me that I’m too tall to be in the front row and it’s not fair. Now, keep in mind that this concert was outside, in February, in Vail CO. It was FREEZING so not only am I of the stature I am but I had my hair up and a beanie on and a big coat and boots. We try our best to ignore him but Bro™️ is drunk and very clearly thinks I’m a man and proceeds to punch me in the back of the head.

LIL SIS WENT OFF, FOLKS. This tiny woman literally moved me out of the way, jumped up, and head butted Bro™️ in the face with such a fury. I thought she was going to kill him, it was truly a beautiful moment in my life.

The moral of the story is that for every tree in the wild there is a cute little birdy who will defend its shelter to the death. Stick together ladies👯‍♀️